Tuesday, May 1, 2007

Why Men Stare and Women dont!

When a women walks by, the man will look at the woman waiting for a sign to see if she is interested in him or not. Men will often pretend they are not looking at a woman just to show her that he is a guy that she would want to be with. I know that doesn’t make sense to the woman out there, but it is what a lot of guys do. The idea is that most men stare at women, make comments, whistle, drool, ect. So some men figure if they don’t look at the woman he is interested in and pumps his chest up, does some cool walking around her, then she will see that he is not like all the other guys and maybe give him some kind of sign that she is interested in him. This makes sense in the animal kingdom and it did thousands of years ago for us too, until we evolved. But now the world is a different place and the rules have changed, but our instincts have not changed much through evolution since we have evolved so fast in this new world. So what served us thousands of years ago doesn’t anymore. Apes and others mammals do this sort of showing off in front of the females to get their attention, and then they take their mate. Nowadays women want romance, love passion, and to be swept off their feet. Also men need to understand that woman can see on average 45 percent more peripheral vision (side to side). That means that by the time a man sees a women they are interested in, walking by in the mall or somewhere, the woman has already looked the man up and down if they were to look. So you can not look for these signs of interest.

More to come…..

Live with Passion & Purpose!

Your friend,
Daniel Ardebili
PhD in Life!

1 comment:

jamie said...

thank you for your pages you are sending.. i liked reading them. you know more than most guys i have ever encountered, to bad more of them don't read it...lol