Wow! It has been awhile since my last blog after I got back from Fiji. So much has happened and didn’t make the time to blog. But I just got back from meeting with one of my great friends and an amazing man, Guru Singh. Me and my beautiful wife Jenny just renewed our vows in LA with Guru Singh and he had some amazing profound things he shared with us that I felt I had to pass on to all of you. So here it is. Love does not keep a marriage or relationship together. That is why so many people go from one relationship or marriage to the next. Because they keep trying to find that love and that passion that last forever. Now I can hear some of you already saying to yourselves, “what?” “Do you mean I should just find someone and stay with them even if I don’t love them?” No, that is not what I am saying. I am saying that relationships go through seasons just like our weather. Some days its beautiful and sunny and then some days it rains. And then some days it freakn storms and all hell breaks loose. Does that remind you of any relationships you have seen? Or maybe been part of? So what does keep a marriage or relationship together? Its called commitment. When the 2 people are committed totally to each other, then they will go through the sunny times and rainy times and always come back to the sunny times of their relationship. Guru Singh said it best, he said, “Love is the flowers and the trees and the relationship or marriage is the house”. What keeps a house together? Nails! Commitment is the nails! So if you truly want the ultimate relationship then you must fully and totally commit yourself to the other person. 100% and be willing to do it forever and ever and ever. Now I’m not telling you to stay in an abusive relationship or if you just started dating someone for 6 months and you don’t feel like they are your true love, to stay with them forever. Obviously you need to use your own judgment. But I will say that, if you are, or ever were in a relationship for a few years and it didn’t feel like the passion was their anymore, it might have just been a change in that season. You might just need to wait it out and let the season change. But remember to be committed to that person and you will have the most incredible love of your life!
So until next time.
(This Blog has been blessed)
Live with Passion & Purpose!
Your friend,
Daniel Ardebili
PhD in Life!
www.DanArdebili.com
Guru Singh (Here is his site)
www.gurusingh.com
